Hi there, all girlies ♥ it’s a long time since i wrote my last post AND IM BACK hehe. today i wanna talk about my love story. i didn't expect to fall in love with anyone on this year BECAUSE im currently staying in Sg but it’s just temporary. im still waiting to study here (siann it didn’t go well 🥹) and now i still can stay in Sg because my mom sponsors me – she’s pr. so the point is that i think it’s quite difficult to get into a relationship with a local guy. besides, my english is not good so i almost speak chinese instead 😭 and sometimes i will go back my country 🤓
BUT I WAS SO BORING WHEN I JUST CAME SG i don’t have a lot local friends here so i started to download tinder on last year. i only wanted to make friend. although i met a lot 🚩guys but after that i got 2 friends. one is same age & one is younger but quite good. we’re still friend now and i appreciate about it. btw i hope i can know more female friends – one of the reasons i come to lemon8 🍋🎀
Back about my love, it was around end of dec 2022. that time i didn’t open tinder frequently. i was busy and a bit boring on there also. one day, i see a profile, his pics kinda cute to me cuz i like “dan yan pi” lol 🤡 the guy im talking is my bf now LOL and i rmb i swipe right then we matched on dec 26. but both of us are late reply. going to the flow, we followed each other on insta and texted there. omg then i just knew he is ns guy 🫢 quite busy also. but it’s not the matter. HE REALLY MADE ME IMPRESSIVE cuz he talked a lot like willing sharing anything with me hmm like quite honest. as mentioned previously, english is not my mother language so he was always proactive in talking and created more stories for us. it could be seen as a plus on communication 👀 after that we were plaining to have a dinner date on weekend and texted on tele instead also.
We had date on Jan 7. he was really good, planned all 🫢 it like first move. i think the most important thing is that two people have the same thoughts and match together. love is the harmony of two hearts and two souls. that’s why we still continue and have more dates after first date. im so glad that finally i met him 🫶🏻 right swipe right person !! we progressed well. then we started to date on valentines day omgg actually for me, it’s a quite fast. i was a bit worry how long it will last. AND NOW WE’RE STILL TOGETHER !! 💁🏻♀️ almost 1 year. and he will visit me second time on this dec cuz im at my country now 😽 to me, my bf is quite romantic like he knows how to “words of affirmation” 🤧 opposite me, sometimes i don’t know how to communicating from words, i show love through actions 🧸 i only say basic words like ily cuz my english is limited hahahaa. when we texting, everytime he types faster than me 😾 he is always beside me when im sad. also a supporter who gives me advice and ease me all the time. sometimes i think he is talkative than meee 😮💨 so annoying but make me laugh a lot 😌 he takes care me of all details. the language barrier didn’t make it difficult for us to communicate. in contrast, it’s kinda cute and interesting. sometimes have a lot funny moments also. luckily, my bf’s chinese is quite good LOL btw he gain weigh a lot after dating also 🤣 happy man !! we ate a lot tgt. our money waste almost on food and drink 🫢🐽
𝐈 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐞 𝐢𝐟 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐲 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐰𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐟𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 “𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐡𝐞/𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐦𝐞 ?”. 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐮𝐩 𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮, 𝐧𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐬 ♥
First of all, i didn’t look forward to have a serious relationship through dating app. i was doubtful that so i saw it as a entertained platform. now i change my mind. actually it’s maybe 50/50 not of all. you should be patient. you will meet your right person no matter where, real life or on internet, just give it some time. all thing has a fate of its. BUT in my point of view, when u start on dating apps, still must stay safe:
• some just want you for body, hookup… 🥴
• a lot fk rude guys on there but still have a lot cute guys
• meet the actual person before develop any feelings
• text at least 1 friend before going out with guys
It seems a bit difficult for people to find love on internet nowadays but it’s not meant won’t happen. don’t rush in dating !! you are worth waiting for good person ✅. It has to start with a powerful search of who you are, and your willingness to love yourself enough, whether you are male or female, even reality. last one, just want to say that good things happen when you least expect it. see see and chill first hehe. okay i think it’s quite long omgg 🥹 thank kiew for reading to the end 💛💛💛
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